Habits 3,4, and 5 of Highly Successful Love Attractors

In my last blog I shared with you the first two habits of highly successful love attractors.  In this blog I share with you three more habits . . .

3. Openess and Availability –

Just because you say you want a relationship does not mean you are actually available for one. There are many ways that you actually keep yourself unavailable.

You engage in meaningless, sexual flings or you keep your “friend with benefits” around until your
ideal person arrives.  The problem with this is that you are sending mixed signals to the subconscious mind.
Successful true love attractors keep themselves open to receiving the most amazing partnership.

Another way you can make yourself unavailable and block love is by being overwhelmed with work. Workaholism is a virtue in our Western world and so it’s easy to hide behind it.  The reality is that you need to create the  space in your life first before a partner can come in to fill it.

As a highly successful love attractor, you will also have let go of the past. You won’t hold grudges or
resentment from ex-lovers, friends or family members.  You will have worked on letting go
of limiting beliefs and doubts and defences that stop you from being open to love.

You can’t fill a cup that is already full.

You will also have forgiven yourself for past mistakes and you will have learned to have a loving
relationship with yourself. If you don’t value and love yourself, why would you expect anyone else to?
 
4.  Clarity –

You can’t get what you want unless you know what you want. Rather than focusing on what you don’t want, as a successful love attractor you are crystal clear on what you really do want. You will know how you want to be treated and respected in relationships and you won’t compromise that or get distracted.
 
You don’t just focus on what the other person will be like and what they will do for you, but you will
be clear about the kind of relationship you want to be part of and who YOU have to be to attract it.
You will be clear about your own purpose and also the purpose of your relationship.
 

5.  Letting Go -

This is often the most confusing habit for many people.  You’ve done all that work and now you are supposed to just ‘let go’? 

Rather than going on the ‘hunt’ where you become obsessed with finding your perfect partner wherever you go and whatever you do, you manifest or attract this person into your life.

And it’s not about being ‘lucky in love’ either.  Remember ‘luck’ is when preparation meets opportunity. 
 

So, you’ve done the ground work on yourself. You have clarity about what that relationship looks like
and you actively step into that life, rather than waiting until you meet your partner to do it.

In being prepared, in knowing what you want and in stepping into that life you want, your perfect partner’s path will cross yours.  This is the moment preparation meets opportunity