Why You Should Stop Dating

Are you stuck in a vicious downward spiral of hopelessness, frustration, and cynicism when it comes to dating and finding love?

Do you feel like dating just isn’t worth all the effort, time and money involved?

Are you fed up with the constant let-downs, disappointments, rejections and game-playing that are part of the dating ‘game’?

If your experience is negative and if your views of dating and finding love are negative – if that’s your focus, then that’s what you will keep attracting.

You will descend into a downspiral of negativity, expecting the worst, projecting your cynicism and interpreting whatever your date says or does through that negative lens. You will respond negatively, and in return get a negative response from your date. This, in turn, will reinforce your downspiral of negativity – and you will very soon get caught up in this ‘game without end’.

So you should stop dating. Yup, that’s what I said – STOP DATING .

Einstein defined insanity as doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome.

So stop being insane!

Stop doing the same thing year in, year out because you are only going to keep getting the same results.

Stop dating – and instead embrace your singleness – for awhile, at least.

• As an opportunity to figure out what dating, love and relationships are really all about for YOU.
• As an opportunity to take a step back and figure out what strategies you’ve been running – consciously or unconsciously, that have been getting in the way of you finding love.
• As an oppotunity to Get Fit For Love on every level so that when he or she shows up, you are truly open, available and ready.

If you are saying you want a relationship, but it’s not happening – then a part of you – at some level, is saying ‘no’. At some level you are getting in your own way.

And that’s what The VIP Intensive is all about – helping you figure out how you are getting in your own way, releasing those blocks, bringing out the very best of who you are and figuring out what really works for YOU.