Hot Weather, Hot Food and Hot Men
By Susanne on Aug 25, 2009 in Happiness, Travelling Solo
Hot Weather, Hot Food and Hot Men!
I’ve just come back from 10 days of holiday in hot, hot Spain. It was a very last minute and spontaneous decision – something that being single allows you to do. What a great time I had!
I wasn’t planning to go away until September when the hotels are a bit quieter, but I got a message from my ex-mentor, Wealthcoach Nicola Cairncross of The Money Gym and her sister Sarah of The Virtual Hammock inviting me to join them in the lovely town of Casares for a week.
I decided to go three days before I was due to meet Nicola and Sarah and just chill out at a hotel near Malaga airport. Very, very relaxing three days in the sun by the beach and at the hotel’s rooftop pool. It was definitely a good idea.
I met Nicola, Sarah and Nicola’s youngest, Nelson, who was too young to travel on his own (by just 3 months) at Malaga airport, as they waved five teenagers off who were heading back to the UK.
After stopping to get food and drink supplies, we headed for the beautiful town of Casares, which is perched at the top of a mountain. We unloaded everything and then headed to the beach where two jaded mothers , having survived two weeks holiday with six children promptly fell asleep the second their bodies hit their towels.
Casares is an amazing town and the longer I was there the more I fell in love with it. A true old fashioned Spanish town and a photographer’s dream paradise. Have a look at the photos and the property we were staying in, which you can rent too: http://bit.ly/casaressusanne
The week was an absolute blast. In the mornings we all worked on our online businesses, spent the afternoons at various beaches and ate out most evenings. The couple of times we did eat in, I must say Nicola made a mean paella and Sarah some seriously spicy chicken – yummy!
I learned how to play Texas Hold’em and managed to get my soon to be published book sent to typeset.
I also helped ‘coach’ Nelson on his skimboarding skills with his new skimboarder. You’ll see me in the video too!
I’m glad I took my Spanish phrasebook as few people in town spoke English. “Un caffee con leche, por favor” (A white coffee please.) It was also very useful when we wanted to chat with the opposite sex. “Esta caliente!” (He’s hot!) or “Esta sola?” (Are you single?) Needless to say as single women, we had a great time!
Single And Want to Travel?
It’s predicted that by 2011almost 19 million Britons will go on holiday abroad on their own (that’s one holiday in three) The travel industry is waking up to the fact that solo travellers are big business.Here is the Times Online top ten holidays for singles: Top 10 Holidays For Singles
Though I had a super time with my friends, there are also times that I like going on my own to relax and unwind too. The worst thing about travelling solo, however, is when you are met with hefty single supplements. A frustrating reality of travelling solo, these single supplements can sometimes stand in the way of a week-long getaway for many of us. But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Again, the travel industry is aware of the growing number of single travelers and hotels will now often waive the single supplement during certain travel periods through-out the year. The perfect way to offset an active singles lifestyle, these supplement free travel periods are on-going over most of the summer and fall months.
Have a look at a few favourites, courtesy of Signature Vacations, to find a hotel for your much deserved solo retreat: Best Singles Vacations
Do you travel solo? What great destinations and places would you recommend? I’d love to hear from you!
I’m off now to plan my next holiday around my birthday in October – snorkelling and scuba diving in Egypt perhaps?














susan | Sep 5, 2009 | Reply
Hi Susanne,
Your holiday sounds great, I was getting a trifle green seeing your great pics on facebook!
Nelson’s skimboarding looks fun to and a great choice of music.
Although I am no longer single, when I was, I went on holiday on my own and had a great time relaxing and contemplating things I wanted to do. I found that although it felt a bit scary the first time it was one of the best things I ever did. In fact I found it very liberating and a big achievement, especially as all my holidays before were as a family. It was quite strange as lots of friends were saying that it was really brave and they wouldn’t want to do it, but I found it to be a great way to recharge my batteries and really spend some me time doing what I wanted.
The single suppliment can be inhibiting and I’m pleased to see that the travel mindustry is finally recognising this and doing something about it.
Susan : )
admin | Nov 29, 2009 | Reply
I so agree with you. It can feel quite scary to contemplate going on holiday on your own – but once you do it, it is so liberating. There are some great travel companies that cater for singles now so you have the freedom to go anywhere even though you are not ‘coupled up’ and you get the chance to meet people with similar interests.