Relationship Coaching
- What do you really want out of your life?
- What are your hopes and dreams?
- What kind of relationship are you looking for?
- What – or who – is sabotaging your success – and how can you overcome those challenges?
Imagine a way of exploring these questions with an objective professional who can help, support and guide you to become the person you always wanted to be, create the life you always wanted and attract your ideal relationship…
This is coaching.
Einstein defined insanity as doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome.
If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got. If you want a different outcome – you need to do something different. It’s that simple but not always so easy.
And that is why people who are serious about success employ the services of a coach. They understand…
Coaching is about change and making changes.
Every change in our life starts with a thought, an idea or a dream.
Coaching is about bringing your dreams into reality. Coaching engages the imagination and is at the same time immensely practical and in the real world.
Coaching supports you to take charge of your life – helping you discover your purpose and achieve your goals.
Who I Work With
My clients include individuals from all walks of life – the common thread for all of them is wanting positive change and wanting to take charge of creating the kind of life and relationship they really want.
Good Coaching focuses on three main areas:
- Goals – what you want and how to achieve it
- Values – knowing what is important to you and aligning your values with your goals
- Beliefs – uncovering and challenging limiting beliefs
Michelangelo once said that the task of a sculptor is to reveal the statue that is hidden within the stone. To do so he must remove the fragments of stone concealing what is within and so reveal its true essence. That is what coaching seeks to do.
A coach works with two parallel journeys in the action plan:
- One is the outward journey: changing what you are doing so that you can get what you want.
- The other is a parallel, invisible journey: the inner journey – the world of feelings, learning, self-awareness and self-development.
Authentic and lasting is an inside job. A good coach works with both at once.
What’s In It for You? What will you Learn?
- Tools, techniques and strategies that work for real people who live in the real world.
- Understanding how you get in your own way
- How to turn failure into possibility
- Getting clear about what you really want in your life
- Getting clear about the kind of relationship you really wantHow to feel more confident
- How to be more successful with less effort
- How to know what works and doesn’t work – for YOU!
- How to attract your ideal partner and create your ideal relationship: how to become the chooser, not the chaser
What is My Part of the Deal?
- I will listen very carefully to what you say and what you do not say
- I will ask questions until I am certain that I understand you
- I will be absolutely truthful at all times
- I will hold the belief that you can accomplish more than you believe you can
- I will have high expectations, and will ask you to reach for them
- I will support you and your decisions, absolutely
- I will challenge you to reach for an even more fulfilling life and relationship
- I may sometimes offer you suggestions, but all decisions are yours
- I will ensure that everything we say remains confidential
You will be successful – the synergy of having two brains working for you increases your effectiveness
My Professional Background
I am a teacher, trainer, psychologist and professional coach, a learning and development specialist of 25 years standing
As A Psychologist and Coach I Offer:
- Unique insights into human motivation & behaviour
- Broad perspective on human experience
- Understanding of life transitions
- Understanding of human development
- Experience helping people manage crisis
- Systemic understanding of individuals
- Extensive experience in helping people communicate effectively
- Non judgemental interactive style
- Tools, techniques and strategies to elicit positive outcomes
- Strong Code of Ethics
How to Work with Me
If you are looking for help with issues around improving existing relationships, attracting your ideal partner and building your confidence and self esteem contact me now for further information or to arrange a time to speak in confidence.
Please contact me at susanne [at] thesinglesgym.com
